Be confident and enthusiastic. No one is just 'good in bed'. Everyone has insecure 'off' days, and partners that it just doesn't go smoothly with, but acting like you love sex and more importantly love your body makes a big difference to how you feel about the sex you are having.
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I have always found that if you make the guy feel amazing in bed then he will associate that feeling with being in bed with you and then consider you great in bed! I have always made sure my partners have been aware when they're doing something right with encouraging noises (and often screams) and been very vocal in telling them they're great afterwards. I agree with showing him that you're hungry for it (sexual desire is a massive turn on for men who sometimes feel they have to make all the moves) and be enthusiastic. I always find a glass or two wine makes me feel sexier by releasing inhibitions so try that if you drink.
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Not necessarily something I always follow... but it will be better with the right person. If you are too nervous with the guy to use your best tricks then consider if it might be too soon to go all the way. Talk to your girl friends about it, or even ask your guy friends what they would like! And really really worthwhile - read mens mags about sex, FHM has given me some great tips ;O)
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It's no good just going straight into things. its all about the build up and the foreplay. thats what makes the best sex because you feel more relaxed.
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General rules for a successful good time in the sack include the following:- Be relaxed. Make him laugh (try a seductive dance wearing only his socks and a tea towel!) NEVER discuss your past amours in bed. Fake an orgasm (it doesn't hurt once in a while and it will make him feel terrific). Feel great about your body. He already feels that way about your body, otherwise you would not be in bed in the first place. Your personal confidence will make you feel and look fabulous. Treat his body like an adventure. Tell him how attractive he is. In short, massage the body AND the ego and he will be gagging for more.
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