If he acts stupid around you. If he makes you laugh.

If he really likes you, he might not always tell you but if he's interested he will SHOW you. Body language is key. Laughing, Smiling.. a sense of happiness when he is around you will show you that you make him feel happy. Okay, i agree some guys are very shy about this sort of thing, you may get subtly hints from mutual friends of yours and his and you might start seeing him around more. He might ask you silly, pointless questions just to be able to talk to you. He might hint to you of his liking for a girl, that seems to be just like you. If he does this and you actually like him, hint back. x

If he really likes you he will show an interest in you, he will find reasons to talk to you, he will call you when he said he would and he would generally be attentive and senitive to your wishes. After a nice date he will phone, text or mail the next day, even if it's just a brief one. If he doesn't get in touch for days, he's not that interested. If somebody is seriously interested they don't play it cool, they show that they care.

Much heartache can be saved if you ask yourself one simple question. Does he treat you as well, or even better than your best friends? If he does he's 'into' you, if not he's not. Simple really. Friends call, friends look after your best interests, friends care - ask yourself, does he?

If you’ve been seeing a guy and he doesn’t call when he says he will and doesn’t make an effort, there is a phrase to remember which will save you a lot of heartache – “He’s not that into you”. So get over it and find someone else. He’s so not the one.