This is such a tricky one to answer, as there is so much more going on here.please put yourself first, as this is a classic sign of abuse, maybe not physical but psychological. Don't confront him straight away hold on for things to cool then chat to him and let him know you don't feel that what happened was your fault, and that he hurt you by blaming you. Remember if there is not resolve please start believing in yourself,
that all you do is not your fault and you need to be strong to decide if this is how you want your life to be, or have the courage to
put you first.
How to stand up for yourself in a relationship when your boyfriend turns everything around and makes it seem like your fault even though it isnt
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How long has this beein going on and how much do you have invested in the relationship emotionally? You can think about this forever, but you have to ask yourself a VERY simple question: Does this relationship make you happy or unhappy? If it makes you unhappy (and you don't have kids with him) then get out and start being happy either alone or with someone else!
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