Listen, I learnt this along time ago: watch how the person you love treats others he likes and doesn't like. WHY? Because when he falls out with you, that's how he'll treat you. If he dosen't want the baby he won't want you either. It is half you so move on, keep the baby, your life will never be the same - it will be better. Babies are lucky, they bring love and happness. I know, I've had 4 and I would not swap my life for anyone, not even for money.
I'm 5 weeks pregnant by ex and got together with someone else before I found out. He says I should get rid of it and have our own, is it fair to expect him to bring up my ex's child? I want to keep the baby but I love him as well
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OMG, sorry, can't believe what I'm reading. How can you love somebody after less than 5 weeks? No one can tell you what to do but I've got 3 babies and I'd take them over a man any day!! They bring you everything you'll ever need. As for him, how dare he ask somebody he has known for 5 weeks to do something that you will have to live with forever, not him, but you will think about what you've done. He couldnt care less. I've been there, done it and it was the hardest thing I've ever done and wouldn't advise an abortion unles you as an individual believe you don't want your baby. Please get rid of him then make your choice.
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If you're only 5 weeks pregnant by your ex, you can't have known your new guy too long, so why on earth would you give up your child for a relationship that may not last beyond the next couple of months? You hardly know each other, so who knows what the future will hold? Personally, I think you should concentrate on building a life for you and your child and if your new boyfriend really thinks anything of you, he'll stick around and get to know you and your baby properly.
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It's YOUR decision. Everyone will be quick to stamp on your new boyfriend and yes, it's pretty shitty of him to be less than supportive at such a difficult time, but I think it's understandable that he finds the thought of bringing a baby - no matter whose - into your relationship at such an early stage incredibly daunting. But regardless, it's YOUR decision. If you feel that you aren't in a position cope with a baby right now, that's a different matter, but you say that you want to keep the baby. You're in the overwhelming, honeymoon stage of your new relationship but consciously try to cut him out of the picture when you decide what you want to do. If he truly loves you, he will ultimately stand by you and accept your baby. If he doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be - baby or no baby.
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look, i don't mean to be rude to the other tips cause they have a point but don't take this lightly. this is a LIFE CHANGING MATTER. you will have really serious responsibilties. this is not about you, it's about this child and if you make the commitment you need to think about how you can support it financially - if you can give it the best possible care, health, education and love possible. you won't have a father to help and not as many men would look at u cause u have a kid.... if you're ready for that and 1000 percent sure then do, but give this new guy a break, it's been only 5 weeks. how can u tell u love him? but if u really do and he loves you that much then maybe u shouldn't have it. do what's best for the baby, then u. good luck. i hope it ends well x
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