I had the same problem. I told my boyfriend how I felt, but it just wasnt getting through. He works at a club, normally finishes at 4am! One morning I woke up at 10am and he wasnt home, his phone went straight to voicemail, so I walked up and saw him standin outside work. I decided not to wait for him, and went shopping. Half hour later I came home and he understoof EVERY single worry that ever went through my head. Not the best way to get my point across but if talking doesnt work, actions definatly did. Now, hes home early every night!
My boyfriend has this very annoying habit of coming home late and it really gets to me. we have spoken about it but there's really not much change its like his trying to prove a point. How do i deal?
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Annoying habit? Surely it's his choice when he comes home late. Perhaps you need to think about why you get upset when he does this. Are you worried that he's somewhere you wouldn't want him to be? Or that your worried he's had an accident when it starts to get late? It might be worth sitting down with him and explaining these feelings so that he can recognise that you're not trying to control him but just have these (or other) concerns.
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What exactly have you spoken about? And as one person's tip said, what exactly are you afraid of? Do you think he's cheating? Are you worried he got in a car accident? If there are trust issues that you just can't seem to work out no matter WHAT, after several times of trying then I would just end it and find someone who cares that you are concerned about him.
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