I'm going through something similar to this with my best friend and her boyfriend. I was sick and needed someone to help me, but she decided to see her boyfriend instead, it pretty much ruined our entire friendship. Having a boyfriend IS amazing, but don't leave your friends hanging when you know they would do that something for you.
One of my best friends in hospital and she's really lonely. We can go and see her tomorrow but I've already arranged to see my boyfriend. Who should I let down?
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Go and see your friend. Your boyfriend should understand that she is one of your best friends and they are important to you too. Arrange to see your boyfriend at another time, maybe before or after. Don't let your boyfriend get between you and your friend.
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Best friend lonely in a hospital trumps boyfriend. He should understand.
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Please put your friend first. Explain to your boyfriend that you really want to see him but your friend needs you. Promise to make it up to him, and soon. Think about who would be hurt the most. Your boyfriend would be disappointed sure, but your friend would be lonely, upset and angry. Being in hospital isn't any fun so she really needs you!
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